our social worker, well the duty one who in her words got lumbered with us, has referred us to mencap for respite as ive been begging for 6 months for some we got referred in february and have not hear anything yet, i thought mencap focussed more on adults, am i wrong or is the sw more useless than i though?!!? and also how long does it take to hear about it any ideas?? im struggling to get hold of this duty social worker who filled in referral and noone else in her office seems to have a clue