ds1 was seen by pead back on november. sent out conner scale to home and school and sent back, have since been seen by family liason officer at school(unhelpful) HV once and ed psych twice. first term at school, school telling ed psych they had no concerns and couldnt fathom the behaviour we were having at home. Saw ed psych on wednesday and finally he is displaying the behaviours at school now as well as at home. I feel releived as I was beginning to think school were thinking of me as this nuerotic parent that cant discipline her child! now they are starting to experience bits of what I deal with on a daily basis. we go back to the paed in may and Im wondering if I should phone and ask if they can send out another conner scale to school as I suspect the answers from school will be significantly different to what they were at the end of last year-he seemed to be holding together at school pretty well, now that changing.
will the paed agree or will they take the schools first answers as definite IYSWIM?
not sure what to do now. havent heard from HV since feb and behaviours not getting any better, worse in some aspects.
Deep down Im so sure theres something not right, possibly adhd+odd but I dont want to say this outright to the paed.
Its just so exhausting and I wish there was more help, Ive no idea what to expect when we go back in may, Im guessing they'll talk about the results of conners scale(?) then will it be another 6 months before seeing them? and if she concludes then, that there is nothing wrong with him, what happens then??