DS is in Y1 and his behaviour is getting steadily worse - it does this time of year. School have been mildly aupportive of his asd they like the fact he is clever. On Thursday he and another boy blocked the toilets with toilet roll and the head made him put on some marigolds and clean the toilet out (I do understand the reason for doing this). Friday he threw sweetcorn all lover at lunchtime and wouldnt clean it up - he eats lunch at school but I take him home after he has eaten and bring him back at the end of lunchtime -I arrived to hear her screaming her head off at him, apparently he is her responsibility in school and i shouldnt interfere ( I donlt agree with shouting at him). DS wasnt the only child involved in both of these incidents in fact there are 3 equally disruptive children in his class with no special needs. I feel he is being targetted because he has a special need dx. No one else goes home at lunchtime because the school can;t cope with them in fact I have offered to go in and supervise him myself but the school dont want this. I have several friends with children in ds's class and it seems he is not the worst offender. What should I do - the head isnt very approachable.