ok background:
as you know 2 of my boys have asd, either diagnosed formally or effectively.
However at ds3's first paed visit the paed quered cafe au lair marks, and said she was going to do bloods but never did.
the reason this has arisen in my mind is that the baby has 2 of these marks, one in the armpit is rather large, and when I looked online the associated lumps are the ones I get but gave up on doing anythiing about as the one I had removed scarred badly, so I just left the other one and have another 2 now.
Looking through the stuff on nf1 the signs aren't that different from asd, esp. the sort of asd ds1 has with dyslexia etc on top.
Is it worth asking Paed do you think? Or am I picking up pancky sgns that ds4 is mnot ok, which issomething I knew i might do?