ah, it's ok. I found it.
Very offensive. Only question is, is it better to delete such things and pretend we never read them, or is it better to challenge them and let them be read by everyone, and people may be informed and educated. Deleting offensive posts doesn't mean they didn't happen, doesn't erase them from our memories, doesn't mean such views aren't held, it only means that they can't be read by people who might be better educated by reading the complete thread. You can't be changed by half an argument, iyswim.
OTOH, it is outrageous that, for example, if I posted that black/asian/other ethnicity children are running rings round the teachers and disrupting other kids education, or if I said that black/asian/other ethnicity are not really disadvantaged in any way, they just pretend to be to get their own way - my post would be deleted, yet the same thing can be said about disabled children and it falls under the posters 'right to express their opinion' So why don't they have the right to express such opinions about black/asian/other ethnicity kids?
It just seems like people can say whatever the hell they like about disabled children - like disabled children don't matter, it isn't possible to be offensive because our kids don't count.
But like I say, the other part of me thinks that only by letting such ignorance stand and be exposed, can things change.