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DD14 missing lessons, school doing nothing about it

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loobyloo1977 · 27/11/2025 15:56

My DD is in year 10. She was diagnosed with ADHD, dylexia and dyscalculia a couple of years ago. She's never been a fan of school but this year it has got a lot worse and she has started truanting from certain lessons. The reason for truanting is that she feels overwhelmed in the class as it so large with over 30 students (last year most of her classes were 10-15 students) and she doesn't understand the teacher as he talks so fast, also she doesn't have a close friend in the lesson with her which might sound silly but she is very reliant on her friends for support. She has missed over 6 weeks of history lessons now as she has truanted each time she has a lesson, sometimes she has been caught, most times not. If she is caught she gets a 40 minute detention with SLT which she would rather do than the actual lesson. Once she went in to another lesson for a subject she doesn't even study and pretended she was another student which I know she shouldn't have done but school didn't even realise, this was so she could be with a friend. Sometimes she goes to see her pastoral manager to talk to her but she just gets told to go away.

I have sent numerous emails to school but have not had a response. So today she missed yet another lesson and just sat outside on a bench in the yard. School would've had no idea she was there. I encourage her to just try the lesson but I really don't know what to do if she just won't go.

Please could someone give me some advice. Thank you

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2x4greenbrick · 27/11/2025 16:28

Request a meeting with the SENCO. If your request is ignored or refused, escalate it higher up. If that doesn’t work, formally complain.

Does DD have an EHCP?

loobyloo1977 · 27/11/2025 16:44

2x4greenbrick · 27/11/2025 16:28

Request a meeting with the SENCO. If your request is ignored or refused, escalate it higher up. If that doesn’t work, formally complain.

Does DD have an EHCP?

No she doesn't have an EHCP

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2x4greenbrick · 27/11/2025 16:50

You can request an EHCNA yourself. On their website, IPSEA has a model letter you can use.

loobyloo1977 · 27/11/2025 17:10

Thank you. I will look in to that

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ThesebeautifulthingsthatIvegot · 28/11/2025 21:58

Is it only history?

Do you know if there is more than one history class? Do any of her friends do history? How much does she want to do history as an option?

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