Hi everyone . I am a new mom and i m struggling from OCD . I want your opinion .
My 13 month-old baby girl has great eye contact , is babbling a ton , point to ask , point to share interest ( not as much as before but she does it ) , she shows us her toys , she is giving to us , she understands what i am saying, she points when i ask her where is dada etc , she has two words foo for food and da for down . I think maybe says mama but I don't know for sure . She is checking in while playing. She never plays alone for more than 15 minutes . When she likes something she will turn back and look at me and smile .she plays peek a book and hide and seek. She imitates movements , she is clapping, waving, she responds to her name 9 / 10. She is a great sleeper and she eats all the food without a problem.
My concerns are she is hand flapping when she is frustrated. Really rarely does it without reason ( up and down her hand ) for 5 secs maybe but she stops when i give her a toy . She likes also to put her hand under water . ( You may sound ridiculous but i saw it as a sign of autism on tik tok) . She covers her ear when she is trying to sleep. Only there.
Tell me your opinion please . Can be autism????I have seen so much videos , so much information and i don't know what is a sign or what is a baby thing anymore. Thank you