After our statement review before we went away, it was decided that ds2 wouldnt be able to go to ds1's school. So we are looking at the school in the next village this afternoon. Apparently it is a bland 70's style one level school, which should make him able to get about.
Plus points are that his bf from nursery will be going there, and i have been told the head refuses to give out homework!
Wish me luck.