I know this is silly to be so happy about this but I am anyway
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I have 4 autistic dc and one with learning disabilities.
Ds1 now aged 18 finally has a best friend who also has SEN and a few people who he talks to. Ds2 has a group of people he tolerates. Ds3 has a couple of people who tolerate him. Ds5 much prefers adults and enthusiastically greets his classmates parents while ignoring the children.
But ds4 has friends. I've just been sent a lovely photo of him at the year 6 disco with one of those cardboard photo frame things. All my other dc would be on their own looking uncomfortable but dc4 is with his two besties with a massive grin on his face. One of his friends, who also has learning disabilities is always phoning ds4 up and they will chat for ages. It's so lovely. I love my autistic dc but it's just so lovely to have a child who is able to socialise.