I caved and rang, said it's with a case manager (is that the same as a DM?) and that it should be any day soon but to give it another week or two and if we've not heard anything to call back.. gut feeling it's a decline as it's supposedly been with a DM for over 2 weeks now 😭 the wait is killing me, even if it's a decline I rather just know 🤦♀️