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DLA WAIT TIME THREAD 39

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Emmajm85 · 12/04/2024 16:57

DLA Wait Time Chat

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LancsMcG · 19/04/2024 12:41

Fee89 · 19/04/2024 12:37

@Twinnies010920 Oh gosh and heres us moaning waiting 10-15 weeks 😂

@Twinnies010920 my MR dated 19/02, phoned and spoke with someone who said that they were working on MRs from 5 Feb

Twinnies010920 · 19/04/2024 12:42

@Fee89 im praying my daughter gets awarded this time round i dont think my nevers can take the tribunal route and waiting evan longer my cousin had to and all in all from phoneing for the form to end off tribunal 69 weeks 🤦‍♀️

Twinnies010920 · 19/04/2024 12:44

@LancsMcG oh fingers crossed there getting thorugh them quicker than the lady i spoke thinks

MrsRawl · 19/04/2024 12:49

Jempeech · 19/04/2024 06:23

@MrsRawl I’m so sorry your school is letting you down like that . I work in education myself . And I see it from some other staff members time and time again . They do get time to do these things in the school day as they are stretched with a lot but not that stretched ! It makes me sad . My advice is to mention governors … say you don’t feel supported in the process . Both my kids are SEN and this is why I’ve chosen to work with the amazing kids I do . So they have someone who gives a shit fighting for them everyday ! Does he have a TA ? They could also provide evidence! Good luck !

Thank you, yes he does have a TA but she was assigned after I’d sent the forms. I’ve sent an additional statement of evidence to DLA and I’ve added her contact details on to that too.
at my meeting on Monday I plan to say that I feel really unsupported and if there’s no change then I’ll be taking it further. He needs support and the attitude of some teachers in his school is disgusting to be honest. The school keep saying they’ve got staffing issues as lots of staff are off sick and have left but that’s not the children’s problem, they should be supported either way. I’m glad when someone works to support SEN children that understands the difficulties.!Makes all the difference. X

Fee89 · 19/04/2024 12:53

@Twinnies010920 I'd of lost my marbles by now 🤦🏻‍♀️. Fingers crossed they are quick with MR and dont leave you waiting weeks x

MrsRawl · 19/04/2024 12:54

Kaz87 · 19/04/2024 11:00

🤢 that properly turned my stomach x

Same, I joined a dla Facebook group and by the evening I left it. My anxiety couldn’t take it. Seeing the things people get declined for was awful. And it made me think about it more, and the dates closer to mine and I was like 🤮 I’m 4 weeks behind you guys

SAM2409 · 19/04/2024 12:59

Chickapea77 · 19/04/2024 12:32

No, I haven’t, expecting one next Monday. I have a missed call from DWP though. Just my luck I left my phone in the other room for a matter of minutes 😩

100% call them back and give us some good news please!!❤️

Sally107 · 19/04/2024 13:00

Hi ladies, long time lurker here. Just called dla the 512 way and I got through straightaway. I was asked absolutley everything on security. I was even starting to doubt my own name 🤣 Scan date 10/1. Haven't received a text yet. So the lady I spoke to was soooo confusing. She told me my claim is being looked at but said she wasn't allowed to confirm if it was with a dm or not. Isn't that the same thing?? Then told me when it would be backdated to and that I should expect to receive a payment next week but no decision has been made though??? I'm not holding out hope because I know the lies some of them tell sometimes.

I hope today is full of good news for the rest of you x

Kaz87 · 19/04/2024 13:01

Persianpoppy · 19/04/2024 12:08

Update (scan date 04/01):
@Kaz87 according to the lovely female I spoke to, she said that 04/01 and 05/01 scan dates are being dealt with this week and next. She's told me to ring in on Friday next week to confirm again. She did say that they had a massive back log but they've finally filtered through it and going at a much faster pace with all other applications. I hope this helps you too! &'everyone else on this feed.

@Persianpoppy thank you ! You're a star 🌟 hopefully not to long for us. I keep getting this sickly stomach 😩 xx

Fee89 · 19/04/2024 13:02

Sally107 · 19/04/2024 13:00

Hi ladies, long time lurker here. Just called dla the 512 way and I got through straightaway. I was asked absolutley everything on security. I was even starting to doubt my own name 🤣 Scan date 10/1. Haven't received a text yet. So the lady I spoke to was soooo confusing. She told me my claim is being looked at but said she wasn't allowed to confirm if it was with a dm or not. Isn't that the same thing?? Then told me when it would be backdated to and that I should expect to receive a payment next week but no decision has been made though??? I'm not holding out hope because I know the lies some of them tell sometimes.

I hope today is full of good news for the rest of you x

Huh....even im confused 😂. Call back on long way lol x

SAM2409 · 19/04/2024 13:06

Sally107 · 19/04/2024 13:00

Hi ladies, long time lurker here. Just called dla the 512 way and I got through straightaway. I was asked absolutley everything on security. I was even starting to doubt my own name 🤣 Scan date 10/1. Haven't received a text yet. So the lady I spoke to was soooo confusing. She told me my claim is being looked at but said she wasn't allowed to confirm if it was with a dm or not. Isn't that the same thing?? Then told me when it would be backdated to and that I should expect to receive a payment next week but no decision has been made though??? I'm not holding out hope because I know the lies some of them tell sometimes.

I hope today is full of good news for the rest of you x

It’s seems like she’s subtly trying to say a decision has been made but isn’t sure if she can actually say it or not. Weird but I would take that’s as good news😂

Sally107 · 19/04/2024 13:09

@Fee89 Doing that now. Hopefully I get a clear answer

@SAM2409 That's what I thought too but I'm too scared to have hope 😭

Persianpoppy · 19/04/2024 13:14

Kaz87 · 19/04/2024 13:01

@Persianpoppy thank you ! You're a star 🌟 hopefully not to long for us. I keep getting this sickly stomach 😩 xx

I'll ring for us again on Friday! It's that dreaded wait until then.. on top of that thinking what if they say try again next week?! 😩😂 xx

Fee89 · 19/04/2024 13:18

@Sally107 Good luck

Kaz87 · 19/04/2024 13:52

Persianpoppy · 19/04/2024 13:14

I'll ring for us again on Friday! It's that dreaded wait until then.. on top of that thinking what if they say try again next week?! 😩😂 xx

Yes! You said that they are dealing with 04/05 Jan and straight way I'm thinking ohh no I haven't heard anything so it must be declined. You question and overthink everything again and again. Thank you ever so much for keeping me updated 💕

Kaz87 · 19/04/2024 13:53

MrsRawl · 19/04/2024 12:54

Same, I joined a dla Facebook group and by the evening I left it. My anxiety couldn’t take it. Seeing the things people get declined for was awful. And it made me think about it more, and the dates closer to mine and I was like 🤮 I’m 4 weeks behind you guys

Hopefully you hear soon, noo I haven't got Facebook thank god I don't think I would be able to cope with that on the top of everything else going on so far 😅

Persianpoppy · 19/04/2024 14:04

Kaz87 · 19/04/2024 13:52

Yes! You said that they are dealing with 04/05 Jan and straight way I'm thinking ohh no I haven't heard anything so it must be declined. You question and overthink everything again and again. Thank you ever so much for keeping me updated 💕

The overthinking is LETHAL! Been questioning the amount of wrote, the evidence I've sent etc etc drives me insane!
you're welcome! ❤️ x

Kaz87 · 19/04/2024 14:06

Persianpoppy · 19/04/2024 14:04

The overthinking is LETHAL! Been questioning the amount of wrote, the evidence I've sent etc etc drives me insane!
you're welcome! ❤️ x

Yep! I think it will only get worse next week especially as we will be 16weeks x

Lolipop27 · 19/04/2024 14:11

16 week and 2 days, just had a consultation letter that backs up a written statement I sent 3 week ago. Do I send it in or will it be too late??? 😬😬

Emzi538 · 19/04/2024 14:23

Chickapea77 · 19/04/2024 12:32

No, I haven’t, expecting one next Monday. I have a missed call from DWP though. Just my luck I left my phone in the other room for a matter of minutes 😩

Call them back! Good luck x

Chickapea77 · 19/04/2024 14:24

I had a text just as I was calling them, they gave me the direct CM number.
She was lovely, said thanks for ALL the evidence I sent and just asked me about the nights as most docs were from school and didn’t have info about that.
We should have the decision today but seemed quite positive. I have been crying since I talked to her, though, it’s bittersweet knowing that you are entitled to that help because his life is so, so hard and it’s not ever getting better.
Anyway… it has been 14 weeks exactly from scan date but it was a CoC, not sure if that helps. I feel drained.

ToddlerMumma21 · 19/04/2024 15:31

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Bossofthehouse · 19/04/2024 15:51

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Did you call the long way? The short way they don’t seem to be able to tell you all the information

Kaz87 · 19/04/2024 15:55

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Omg! This makes me sooo nervous I'm the same scan date

07whatever · 19/04/2024 15:58

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Can I ask what the mobile number ended in? I had a missed call from a mobile number yesterday, I didn't think they called from a mobile? Got me panicked now 😬