@CoralSheep my son was diagnosed with ASD when he was 3 and awarded DLA, it’s been a struggle from day one for us. Puberty brings new challenges and lockdowns did set him back so much and at the worst possible time. Fought to get him a statement to guarantee the right secondary placement but the LEA totally manipulated and gaslit me to put him in an unsuitable school.
He was excluded on day 2 and I had to get him on his first day back because he gave himself a concussion already at 9am. Refused to send him again unless they guaranteed his safety but he virtually spent the school year at home (only going 1hr a day). How I survived, I don’t know!
Through all this, it never occurred to me that with his severe needs he should be receiving more help until his new teacher questioned why we didn’t have a blue badge and looked so surprised my son was not on high rates. She wasn’t judging or anything but I still feel like I haven’t fought hard enough.