Help with my child

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Hi I have a child who has always been hyper and struggled with sleep maximum 4 to 5 hours school are have extreme violent outbursts since hes been 7/8 in year 3 hes now 11 in year 6 hes on a modified timetable of 3 hours aday hes been getting excluded every week now there thinking about permanently excluded him ive been to go loads time no joy no help hes like this at home very hyper dnt sleep wen he does its short 4 to 5 hours max and multiple wakes throughout and it takes him a long time to settle for bed hes out brushes r happening more frequently and lasting longer he can tell me an school bits but can't recall whole events any ideas what is wrong all I hear is emotional dysregulation

Does DS take any medication to help with sleep? Is he under any professionals?

Does DS have an EHCP? The schools reduced timetables sounds like unlawful, informal exclusions. Part time timetables should not be used to manage behaviour. If DS can’t attend school full-time the LA should be providing alternative provision instead of or as well as part time school. Email the Director of Children’s Services requesting provision. Alternatively, if you want DS to attend school full-time email the HT informing them you will only be collecting DS early if he is formally suspended.

He isn't on no medications he's seen a ep in school educational phycologist who has said suspected adhd and referd to beu but not heard nothing been 4 months gp keeps saying they can't do much as hes 11 an sayin we can do referral for beu aswell as school its all frustrating no matter were I go for help no1 seems to help ive called social services for help school have raised concerns with safe guarding because he has no fear an has put himself and other staff an children in danger on a number of occasions he remember bits but becomes enraged again when me or school say the full story he will scream no no no it didn't happen its lies when we seen what he's done with our own eyes its like hes forgetting or blacking out he has the biggest heart and the most funniest child ever known but he just flysheet into fits of rage out of no were ehcp was rejected under grounds could cope school helped me apply this and thats still on going

Go back to the GP and request a referral to CAMHS or paeds or a sleep clinic.

When you called social care have the children with disabilities team carried out an assessment? And have you had a carer’s assessment? If the answer to either of these is no, request them - Contact has model letters you can use on their website.

Do you mean the school helped you appeal the EHCP refusal? Was it refusal to assess or refusal to issue? When did you submit to SENDIST? Have you requested an expedited hearing both because DS is out of full time education and also because he is a phase transfer year?