Dd11 ASD with pda profile simply refuses to bath, brush teeth, brush hair etc. it's heartbreaking to see my beautiful girl looking so dishevelled. She has been out of school since November due to her severe anxiety. She looks awful and smells not helped by the fact her periods have started and she still refuses to bathe. I feel like a bad mum but everytime I broach the subject she screams and shouts and says I am bullying her. Short of frogmarching her into the bath which would be impossible as she is so big and violent. Anyone else had this ?