This is going to be so long and I can’t make it short, sorry.
In July last year I sought a referral to paediatrician for DS(2) for an ASD assessment. Symptoms extensive but for example, sleep problems, eating and drinking problems, milestone regression, no speech, no understanding etc. Also self referred to SALT at the same time.
September 2023: Paediatrician sent letter saying sounds like autism, needs assessment but they don’t refer for that anymore. GP said they don’t either and contact HV. Unable to contact HV so wrote to ICB to ask how to get this referral.
December 2023: first Salt appointment, she can’t refer either because he isn’t on the pathway but emails HV to ask if they can contact me. Also says she suspects GDD.
January: regional complaints team respond saying they need another month for a clinical review. HV calls and books appt for February. Second SALT appointment after which they give me things to work on at home and a ‘returners’ form to come back once we have done it. Sends report stating speech delay, understanding delay, possible autism and states referral closed while we work on things at home.
February: regional complaints team respond saying they need another month for a contractual review. HV cancels appointment due to migraine.
So, seven months down the line we still don’t have the referral.
I had already sent for a DLA form in January so we are now at the end of the 6 week window and this is all I have:
-Initial GP referral to paediatrician
-Paediatrician response
-Report from SALT
Nobody has filled in the section on the form for someone who has seen the child, SALT said to ask the HV but I have no idea now when or if she is even coming.
I’m so tired from all this I can’t even see anything clearly anymore, is there anything I’m missing?
I can provide extensive notes of my own but that’s not evidence really. I have to send it now because in November I will be expected to return to work and there’s absolutely no way any childcare setting will take him (quite violent, can’t communicate, can’t eat or drink normally, freaks out if other children are around) so I need to be established as his carer for UC purposes, which means middle rate DLA.
I’ve got no option but to send it as is, but will it be enough? If it fails we will have to live on sanctioned money and it will really, really put us in a bad position.
Ultimately what we need is an EHCP but without evidence they are just going to turn around and say no. What I could do is try and convince a preschool to take him on a very limited timetable or something, but anyway I’m going off point.
If anybody actually gets to the end of this, thank you, and what do you think? I am just beyond stressed at this point and have nobody to ask