Sen or bad behaviour

[Zok]

Hi asking about my dd 4

she has some controlling behaviour
doesn’t want her brother taking a bath sometimes
stomps her feet repeatedly
doesn’t want him to put his seatbelt on first
gets angry if he does anything first

wants us to spoon feed her at dinner but feeds herself at school

very limited foods

to be fair he winds her up

Impossible for anyone here to say if it could be related to SN or not based on the very limited information in your post.

@Zok My younger brother was way worse than that as a child. He is 38 now. There is nothing in his behaviour that would make you think he ever did anything like that as a child. He is a smart and successful adult. Trust me, he was a very difficult child, a proper handful.