Autistic son refused to go with dad at agreed collection time. Dad came into house and picked him up, physically battling with him, to force him to go, pulled sons jumper off. Saying that he is being naughty. Left my son very distressed, upset, disassociated. What do I do? He has applied for a child arrangement order meaning that I could get in trouble for this but at the same time it breaks my heart. Believe me I am positively encouraging my son to go. I don’t want this heartbreak. They never had a great relationship when we were together.