DS is 4 and he’s been using the potty for a month now he wont ask to go he has to be reminded and still won’t go for a poo on it, which isn’t a big deal at the moment as I’m quite surprised how well he’s done so far. My problem is at nursery, there’s been too many occasions where I’ve picked him and he’s wet. They always changed him when he was in nappies and have given him great support with his learning needs and getting the ball rolling with paediatric assessments etc. So I I wrote a note in his contact book and I feel as if things have turned sour and they haven’t followed up with my note but just gave me a form to sign about toilet training. I’ve decided to send him in pull ups and use pants at home, just worried this might confuse him but I can’t see any other way.