My ds returned from residential school(for deaf children) this afternoon waving a certificate which said he'd changed his bed by himself and also been kind a helpful to staff and pupils!! I have noticed a difference in his behaviour since i stopped him having drinks/foods with aspartame in. Not saying his behaviour is perfect cos it aint, it was nice last weekend to come home from being out, i went to collect him from my friends house(she can sign as well) he was out in the cul de sac playing with boys of a similar age interacting and making himself understood! Its just little things but they all make a big difference!!