My 8 year had issues when she was about 4 years old with wiping and went though a phase when I was getting out of an emotional abusive relationship, she even saw my ex come right up to my face. I got out but bad news he got PR as her step dad and every other weekend and half holidays. She has her two brothers and he has one of my children live with him. The system isn’t all great to victims.
Some time after Xmas when she stayed a week I noticed she picked poo from her bum but denied it but it was her, that stopped but now we have excessive wiping, finding toilet paper all over the house, towels in between her legs for ages after going to the toilet. Basically it’s got worse now. I’ve called the GP and they will call back. Does this sound like sensory issues?
The weird thing is the professionals all believed my ex , charming and very manipulative but she was fine when we got away for a long time, had her moments but overall a big change and at first the contact and over nights started all was fine but the week she stayed longer this all started. She always been quite funny with clothes, socks and stuff before but it’s all started much more now.
I’ve asked my ex to re consider holidays and maybe just every weekend and as my daughter said she doesn’t want to stay long with him. He accused me of alienation even though I said we can compromise on holidays and he is the one telling my daughter stuff that is not true about me hurting her which I never done it. He was the one who abused me mentally terrible with threats but no one believed well not enough against him and he has money he constantly buying the kids stuff and telling them I’m poor. but all this strange sensory issues all started again when she stayed longer for holidays with him.
Any advice please other than GP