My 5 year old has been under peads since she was 2. Had a preschool group assessment at 3yr2m which had her very close to the ASD line so needed a wait and see.
I posted another thread about before and after school meltdowns. Then she had one in school and they have set up earlier finishes and later starts etc.
Her well overdue community peads appointment has arrived for 2 weeks time.
Would I be reasonable to request a meeting with school beforehand?
I'm unsure how on board they are and if there is anything from their perspective that I need to address. I may well find they have zero concerns in terms of needing assessment but I absolutely don't know where I stand. I'd also like to find out if there's any support for her in place at school as there has been lots of discussions but I'm unaware of any doing.
What sort of things should I be asking? I feel so utterly overwhelmed