just thought I would share this... I am due to have no2 in about 6 weeks. Have been talking about baby and stroking my belly and talking to dd about baby - lifted my shirt for her to rub my belly.... she now lifts my shirt ( not in public) but strokes my belly and says AHHHHHHHH!!
ahe also cuddles my bump...
Just hope this gentleness remains after no2 arrives.....