SUMMER HALF TERM N LOADS OF VISITORS

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MY DISABLED DAUGHTER IS ON HER SUMMER HALF TERM.. TIME FOR REST? DAYS OUT? OH NO JUST THIS WEEK THE SOCIAL WORKER [ADULT SERVICES] WANTS TO COME FOR A VISIT 9.30 TOMMORROW. THE O.T. WANTS TO VISIT 10.00 ON THURS, FRIENDS WANT TO VISIT FRIDAY IVE ALSO GOT VISITORS PEEPS TO STAY IN FOR NEXT WEEK FFS.
1; MY DAUGHTER BOARDS AT SCHOOL WHERE THEY SEE HER REG.
2; THEY HAVE BEEN OF LITTLE USE SO FAR FOR ADAPTIONS, SUMMER LIESURE PROVISIONS.
DONT THESE PEOPLE THINK THAT US PARENT/CARERS ALSO LIKE TO HAVE A LIL BREAK IN THE HOLS TOO?.
WHILE THEY HAPPILY WHILE AWAY 'OUR' TIME EATING BISCUITS AND DRINKING TEA AT 9AM IN THE MORN TALKING ABOUT FUNDING, COSTING AND HOW THEY CANT HELP THE LACK OF PROVISIONS 'WE' HAVE BETTER THINGS TO DO!.
I'M SORRY IF THIS SOUNDS REALLY HARSH BUT ITS TRUE. THEY CAN OFFER LITTLE OR NO HELP FOR US ANYWAY SO JUST LEFT WITH WAITING IN FOR PEEPS FOR MOST OF THE HOLS .
WHEN WE DO HAVE A 'DAY OFF' FRIENDS DECIDE THEY ARE 'PASSING' AND COME TO VISIT TOO.
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Tell them not to come.
All of them.

iwill not allow appointments in the holidays. i just say no

tHANX FOR ADVICE,
I SPOS THAT AS A SINGLE PARENT I THINK THAT IF YOU DONT 'ALLOW' THEM TO SEE THE CHILD/TEEN IN THE HOME ENVIRONMENT THEY INSTANTLY THINK YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO HIDE .
AS I SAID THOUGH THEY DO HAVE TIME TO SEE HER IN COLLEGE AS I KNOW THEY DO.
THE SOCIAL WORKER JUST RANG N SAID THAT THE INDEPENDANT LIVIN FLAT SAL WAS GONNA TRY SHE HASNT BOOKED HER IN FOR BECAUSE DD DIDNT GET BACK TO HER WHEN SHE RANG N EMAILED HER!!!!
COULD IT BE THAT SAL WAS SOOO P**D OFF WITH HER BECAUSE AFTER ALL THE FORM FILLING ETC S/W THEN TELLS SAL THAT THE ORIGINAL FLAT IS OFF BECAUSE THE CEILING HOIST IS STILL BROKE [5 WEEKS] N THEY'LL AV TO LOOK ELSEWHERE .
WHEELCHAIR SERVICES ARE NO BETTER THEY SHOW HER A CHAIR, TELL HER ITS PERFECT FOR HER NEEDS THEN RING ME A WEEK LATER TO SAY THEY WONT FUND IT....WTF.
DISABLED TEEN STRESS LEVEL TO ME 6 OUTTA 10.
PROFFESSIONALS STREESS LEVEL TO ME 12 OUTTA 10. HHHHHHOOOOOORRRRRLLLIIIICCCKKKS