Hello! Son, nearly 12, was diagnosed in September with HFA. He's self-harming and really struggling with anxiety, meltdowns etc. which are taking quite a toll on him and on the family. CAMHS has told me that unless he's suicidal or injuring others he 'doesn't meet criteria' for CBT with them... 
So going to see if we can swing private for at least a few months. Anyone had a good experience with a therapist helping ASD in North London? Thanks!