It's late but what happens when school say your child is fine- spelling on target, focussed concentrating and not anxious etc.
I know dd will not have outbursts anywhere other than home as that's where she feels safe however as she keeps things in should school be helping with this?
It's hard as have been told oh yes she is on target for spelling for example however she certainly is not on target and struggles to spell a lot of words how can I believe what else they are saying?