We asked the specialist psych who dx,d DS to do an asessment on DD in nursery, the SENCO and early years HV were trying to convince us that every thing was ok when we knew deep down it wasnt.
Its not good.
He said DD wanders around looking confused and lost, shee has a blank look on her face, he saw her being "bullied"- if you can call it that at age nearly 3 by another little boy who took her toys off her and she couldnt tell her key worker who had her back to her, he said she just imitates other children and repeats things all the time.
He also said there is no structure or routine to her day, she went outside, pushed a pram around and then went back inside.
We told nursery this last month, they disagreed, but now he has noticed this he is going to provide a report and come to the next meeting, we are also going to tell the developmental paed cos ive given up on SLT, they wont return calls or provide a report of the asessment they did back in December 06 of DD.
I am so upset, im trying not to show it in front of DS but i want to ball my eyes out, its obvious that she hasnt been getting the support she needs.
The psych also said there are loads of staff and that as she is on early years action plus that she should be getting some 1-2-1 time.
that i have to send her there, i only did so cos i cant cope with the 2 of them while DS is out of school, but the moment he gets back in im reducing her hours right down.
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jenk1 · 19/02/2007 15:06
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