School have queried whether DS1 (who has ASD) might also have ADHD and have suggested that we get him assessed. He has a lot of the characteristics of ADHD (poor attention, unable to sit still, impulsive) but really needs his sleep so I've always thought (and had been told) that his behaviours were due to ASD. He is hypermobile and has poor muscle tone and his OT told me years ago that he found it much harder to sit than other children because of this.
Apparently we need to go through CAMHS for a diagnosis. We have never dealt with them before and I know that the waiting lists are long in our area.
If it looks as though we are going to have to wait a long time for an assessment, we could try and pay for a private assessment. However, if it is likely that a private diagnosis is less likely to hold weight with the LA, then we would wait for an NHS appointment. He is due to transfer to an EHCP next spring and we are currently investigating secondary schools for him. (He's year 4).
Also, what happens if you have a private diagnosis and medication is suggested? Can it be prescribed on the NHS?
Any advice welcome!