Just need to sound of a bit , why is it that my son always gets ill ,every time i have a trip out planned. He hasnt been too well all over christmas, but now it has gone to his chest and he so very poorly , just as i,m getting ready for a friends black tie wedding that we,ve been getting ready for since june. My ex husband is having him as i have to stay over ,but all he wants is mummy . AAAAAARRRRRRRR.