Here,
Saw Gp as had concerns for years and Ds hit rock bottom. Risk of exclusion from school. School say not educational issue as social and emotional.
Go referred to community leads who sent referral back to GP.
GP referred to Camhs who bounced referral back suggesting ed psych.
I rang Camhs and asked for a breakdown of their reason why they suggested EP when school have said they don't think EP and suggested GP for referral.
Camhs said email them concerns myself and they'd look again. (Inthinknthey we're going to refer to my points as reason why EP!)
However, Camhs read email and accepted referral and given 'choices' appointment in 2 months.
Attend appointment, put on asd waiting list. That took 22 months to get to top of.
Camhs suggested salt referral which school did.
School also referred to EP after a while due to ds other issues with writing etc.
Ds saw Camhs for ADOS and I did interview. Went to panel following week and given diagnosis.
We see OT next month.
Basically you can't tell what they'll do or when. But I would say have a list of your concerns and examples of behaviours. How they affect your DD, get education, the family etc. and stand firm! Good luck. 