Constantly , why are camhs not in , they work for the nhs , not the educational authority , so there should be someone around that you can speak with .
I would want to know why they though that you would sabotage an intervention that you have been waiting months to happen . Also why they think that a teenager who may be struggling isn't going to be perceptive enough to know that something is up , when there someone in there class who paying particular attention towards them .
Teenagers may act like they don't know what's going on round about them , but there more astute than we as adults give them credit for , most children are , even young child know when things aren't right.
What are camhs assessing your daughter for , is she being non compliant , teenagers have the same right to privacy that we expect as an adult .
Also a lot depends on whether they form a bond with the person who is suppost to be supporting them , to actually get anything out of it , my child didn't find camhs helpful at all , we since found a private counsellor who he's more able to relate to , who actually make him think he has the time for him rather than the rushed attitude the person from camhs gave across ,