I am really just whinging but have had another messed up morning when carer didn't arrive and consequently won't get to work or take my youngest to school until after 10am. I look unreliable at work, feel pissed off because I make such massive efforts to get organised in the morning and still I can't do it. Am really fed up, even had a pathetic little cry this morning about it. Does anyone else manage it? We don't have any family to help out and don't have the money for the nanny that we probably need.