It's been pointed out to me that it's not the done thing to post blog links direct to the forum. I'm sorry if your comments have been deleted as a result of this.
While I will remain on the boards and part of the community, I won't post any blog links directly. The blog is for families of children with additional support needs and if you have been following from here then you can find the blog all born in the mumsnet blogs, Facebook page www.facebook.com/AllBornIn and the Actual blog : allbornin.blogspot.co.uk/
If this is not appropriate let me know and I will get the post removed