I usually post about Dd1 (severe Asd) but have a question about Dd2 (3). I started to get some niggles.
Dd1 was delayed from early on, her difficulties were really obvious.
Dd2 on the other hand did everything early, crawling, walking, talking, communication is fab BUT she seems to be so rigid in many ways. can only eat with certain spoons, will only drink from one cup. lasr year, we went to the seaside where she wore a skirt - she will now not wear skirts anywherw else because 'skirt is for the seaside'. the other day we went to a sporting activity where the coach high-fived all the children in the end of the session. only Dd2 refused ('because I went there only to ride my bike. thats what you said mummy' - this is so Dd2). She has zero flexibility in her thinking for a lot of things and dealing with her can be exhausting. I think I got a better handle on Dd1.
I could go on and on and on. she also has sensory issues (tactile).
Nursery noted that she can be stubborn when she gets something in her head but have no other concerns.
Is this what NT(ish) 3 year olds are like???