Dd1 is four soon ( i know where did those years go) and I have planned for her to have a birthdya party. Have a mix of sn and nt children.... some from sn kindy and some from kindy and some friends.
Am having it at a park - planned a couple of games and then let them have free play at the park.
Have a craft activity for them to do when they arrive - decorate a door knob hanger iykwim - have their name written on it eg. Dd1's room and then they can draw/colour etc.
Dd1's has butterflies as a kind of theme: so have printed out pics of butterflies that I will laminate and hide - they have to find them - get stickers for finding them
basically - craft, play, food, birthday cake and home.
in party bag - little notebook, coloured pencils, stickers, whistley thing, finger monsters for boys, bangles for girls, small pkt of jelly beans, balloon as well as balloon on a stick attached to party bag.
Sound okay?!?!?