WHOOO HOOO................ 
DH bumped into our friends yesterday and they OFFERED (yes thats right offered) to have DS on a Sunday afternoon and they will take him to football along with some other friends and their kids that we know.
I felt like crying when DH told me.
2 whole hours away from DS, dont get me wrong i love him to bits but he isnt in school and its really draining.
Now if only could get someone for DD!