I've posted about 2.5yo DS1 before, so apologies if this sounds familiar. The outcome of my previous thread was getting him referred to opthamology. We were there yesterday and apart from a normal amount of long-sightedness, there is nothing going on.
Basically, many times a day he stops what he's doing, tilts his head slightly, narrows his eyes and looks down and to the left, while grimacing a little. He doesn't respond to his name while he's doing it, although I think he responds to fingers in front of his face (always takes a few seconds to react and get over to him so he might just have finished by the time I get there).
While he's not doing this he is very sociable, has good eye contact, shared attention etc. He had a very slight delay in with his speech - didn't start at all until 24 months - but now I would say he's slightly ahead if anything. He does quite a lot of parroting lines from TV shows, but he uses the phrases in context so he obviously understands them. I've noticed that he doesn't use yes and no very much, and doesn't nod or shake his head. A local drop-in SLT has spent some time with him and says she would be happy to take an HV referral to "reassure" me - he's interacted with her very nicely.
Aside from this, we have ongoing issues with sleep (currently early waking), and constipation/withholding, which is being treated with a low dose of movicol.
I would really appreciate some advice on next steps. Presumably the SLT referral is worth pursuing? Should I also be going back to GP post-eye test? What for?