BAckground: DS1 has HFA, with APD as part of that. Older DD is NT. I am certain that DS2 (4) is NT.
He has a big speech delay. Today we were told for sure that it is not deafness. I am actually upset about that - I wanted an answer that wasn't processing disorder. I am convinced the child is not spectrum, he has wonderful imaginative play, has masses of empathy and is excellent at reading situations. But this speech thing. And he Will Not Speak to strangers, which made the SALT assessment rather tricksy.
So, I'm wondering what other reasons there are for speech disorder/ delay? Any experience or stories gratefully received!