I was told that one or two people were asking after me. I haven't gone. Just not on this page so much. Time pressure 
I'm alright thanks. Checkups for the breast cancer still show it's gone so far. Only 7 more checkups to go at 6 mthly intervals, and we'll know for sure(ish) if it's going to stay gone
but life is good
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For those interested in this sort of thing, loads more work on autism nationally (I'm autistic, and an autism trainer/adviser amongst other things).
And FineLad is loving Uni where's he's training to be a counsellor (in defiance of the secondary school who told us that he was doomed to be a failure thanks to his combo of disabilities...) So raspberries to them.