My darling Godson is 3 and has a kind of SN that I don't fully understand. I really don't want to ask his parents about his condition because it's so difficult for them to talk about. He was born unexpectedly breech and didn't breath for quite a while so cooling treatment, special care for weeks etc. He never learnt to swallow. Initial brainscan showed extensive damage and he had lots of seizures. Docs gave a very dark prognosis of him never walking, talking, being continent etc etc. Then when he was 2 they did another brainscan which showed no damage whatsoever, and they said the first one was indecipherable. They found that the problems he has are to do with something muscular, but they don't know what. Apparently there are so many muscular disorders and his isn't a common one but they don't know what it is or what to expect. He can walk but no speech and he's tube fed + can't swallow. (specialist advised against feeding him orally at all, but mum + dad feed him tastes of stuff as a quality of life measure) The problem is I don't know what I can do to help him. His Mum is so self-sufficient and wouldn't dream of asking for anything, but I'd love to be able to make a difference to him. They have plenty of babysitting from their parents and he has a school place so it's more him that I want to help rather than them, if that makes any sense? I wish I knew what would make him happy or help his development. Was wondering if any of you guys could advise? Thanks for reading.