Global delay stress ....

[HannahcatO]

Oh M.G ,
So stressed ,can't cope ,feel under so much pressure.
My son ,is due to start school in sept, his halfway through the processes of gaining statement,but its jus soooooo continuous ,I keep forgetting appoints,I keep forgetting various things for my youngest (eye appoints.)
My eldest is 19 a young woman in the making ,needing guidance ,an occasional advise.
I feel really out of my depth at times and is as tho I can't keep up with the amount of info that I need to absorb....

Hi hannah and welcome to mnsn. Sorry you are feeling under so much pressure.

The only practical advice I can give you is to use the calendar on your phone for all appointments. I put reminders in my phone when I make an appointment and set a reminder.

If you have your calendar on month view you can see what is on at the touch of a button.

I also have big gaps between my children so I know how complicated it can get.

Try to take a break when you can and good luck with the statement

Oh thanks ,
Have calmed a lot since reading through everyone's different but the same type troubles ,gd jus seems so sketchy to me and the getting it right for each child emotionally ,is so fluid,never. EVER ,found ANYTHING ,in my life ,as hard an complex.the appoints have been on the calendars the white boards the phones ,I just seem to think of it at the reminder ... Then,(eg speech &language appointment ... )Week before last tues, so pleased ,couldn't wait to get started ,etc . Mon NIGHT I remembered it then my husband took day off then,my eldest came back for mummy cuddles , so on an so on . GONE!!!!
Didn't hear phone as I am struggling with the whole plugged in at all costs thing both husband an little adult in making are ALWAYS.... Without fail ,plugged in
..I hate that I actually like being un-available ... Have ,for while done the plugged in thing .but don't think I care that this person had that to eat @that time .... It was yum yum
EH !!!! NOPE NEVER EVER WILL , &PROUDLY I SAY THIS NEVER EVER SHALL I BECOME MORE INVOLVED IN WHAT'S apparently happening to such tweeting twats @tfffbsn(thank fck for fb socialising network)without which the tragic masses would feel un loved an unpopular .... I've tons of bods on mine actually tho the only ones I give a toss bout are actually my relatives (bigfam) think I really have bout 3actual friends.... No not the 5000000000 shown on my profile ha ha