Please or to access all these features

SN children

Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.

I think I may have been offered a caring carrot today...

135 replies

hazeyjane · 25/02/2013 19:20

...ds was being observed by a learning disability nurse today at nursery, in the hope that she can help come up with a plan wrt ds's separation anxiety when he starts preschool in April.

Ds was having a good day, he has now had 2 of these since starting 16 months ago, it has been a long hard slog to even get him to look at his keyworker, or play without having a hand on my leg at all times, or scream for most of the session, and I can't leave the room without him going into a complete meltdown.

After watching him for the session, and listening to his keyworker explain the severity of his separation anxiety, her suggestion was, 'have you tried telling ds that you are just popping out to the loo, and will be back in a minute?.....'

Obviously all our problems are solved now, phew.

OP posts:
StarlightMcKenzie · 26/02/2013 19:14

A cheers Mummy. I'll ditch the special school, put all his electronic toys away and send him to the local comp. That'll fix him.

EllenJaneisstillnotmyname · 26/02/2013 19:15

Click here

This is still my favourite caring carrot. Grin

BaggyKnickers · 26/02/2013 19:16

Perhaps we could have a communal whip round for this and whenever anyone has a meeting lend it out Grin

hazeyjane · 26/02/2013 19:23

I like that carrot too much to stick pins in, Ellen.

I have just burst out laughing (bad idea trying to get ds to sleep) at that costume - I will imagine everyone at the meeting wearing one, which should calm any panic!

OP posts:
BaggyKnickers · 26/02/2013 19:24

And of course a TAC meeting is a team around the carrot Smile

StarlightMcKenzie · 26/02/2013 19:27

Really? I thought it was 'Talking About the Carrot' for as much good as it did us.

EstherRancid · 26/02/2013 19:43

oohhh! i've had a pArrot too then

'D'sis has recently told me all this reading i'm doing on t'internet is making DD worse, i'm looking into it far too deeply.

yeah, thanks for that 'D'sis, i'll be sure to remind her Psych/SALT/GP/OT that next time we meet Hmm

zzzzz · 26/02/2013 19:49

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

zzzzz · 26/02/2013 19:50

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

hazeyjane · 26/02/2013 19:52

ooh, me, me, I'll wear the carrot costume, I've always had a strange hankering to be someone in a costume handing out leaflets.

I've said too much haven't I.

OP posts:
Bluebirdonmyshoulder · 26/02/2013 20:27

I would fully support a carrot and parrot campaign!

hazey I will pay you good money to dress as a carrot and go and harass my MIL! Name your price!

BaggyKnickers · 26/02/2013 20:45

Maybe we could get a job lot of postcards made up and send to various prof's/LA's - 'Thanks a bunch for being a caring carrot. Love and honks MNSN'

EstherRancid · 26/02/2013 20:48

Baggy Grin

with a trademark 'goose in flight' insignia - ala Flashing Blade/Pink Panther?

StarlightMcKenzie · 26/02/2013 20:50

Every year we could have the Carrot Oscars, where someone in that costume takes a baby carrot and presents it to the person with the most votes from the nominations.

They will have to say something like 'And the winner is X, for yyyyyyyy' with the actual yyyyyyy being the direct quote/performace they were nominated for with a certificate showing the text.

Bluebirdonmyshoulder · 26/02/2013 20:57

Oh pleeeeeease can we do the carrot oscars???!!!!!

Thinking of nominees already!

EstherRancid · 26/02/2013 20:59

or Star we could all send a mini-carrot to everyone who deserves one, then have a national count for the winner!

like collecting pokemon or moshi monsters Grin

zzzzz · 26/02/2013 21:01

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

zzzzz · 26/02/2013 21:01

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

marchduck · 26/02/2013 21:34

Hazey, hope it goes well tomorrow and minimal carrots in attendance at your meeting.
I once got told that it was nice that DD was always well dressed....

hazeyjane · 26/02/2013 22:05

Thankyou Marchduck. I can't wait to get it out of the way tbh!

I will let you know if I have any nominees for the carrot oscars.

OP posts:
Handywoman · 26/02/2013 22:06

PARROT!!! :-) :-) :-)

MummytoMog · 26/02/2013 22:24

I'm often told how beautiful DD is. After all, it doesn't matter that she can't talk, so long as she's ornamental.

bialystockandbloom · 26/02/2013 22:34

Ooh love this thread Grin

Can I give a retrospective carrot oscar to ds's previous Early Years intervention officer who reminded me that I "must remember to enjoy him"

PolterGoose · 26/02/2013 23:25

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

WilsonFrickett · 26/02/2013 23:27

Ooh MummyMog your MIL needs a whole different class of parrot. Sweet baby Cheesus Shock