I know that sounds crazy, but I'm sure you all know what I mean. We are going asking for full time 1-1 ( ds is 2.7, so this would be for 2 sessions of preschool ), ds can't speak at all, has just started signing, has horrendous separation anxiety, needs help physically, help with drinking and eating, has no interest in other children and doesn't like them playing near him. I have been unable to leav him at sn nursery, and the sn preschool won't let me stay so he is starting at a mainstream setting in April. The preschool have said they are happy for me to stay to settle him in, for as long as it takes, and the learning disability nurse who is working with us, has said this could take up to a year.
This morning ds was playing with his key worker, signing, following simple instructions and generally being an absolute delight, the only time he freaked out was when 2 other children came over to play and he grabbed his fire engine, buried his head in my chest and punched himself. (He headbangs and hits himself).
The Salt was doing a session with him today, and talked about him as though he was a different boy to the one she usually sees, and I am now worried that she is going to base her reports for next week on the minihazey she saw today.
It's daft, I should be over the moon that he had such a good time at nursery and seemed so happy, but instead I'm panicking that she is not seeing a true picture.