Hi Mad
Thanks for the info. I don't want to out my friend but she has been fighting for her other son too. Lots of different issues and lots of really stupid suggestions from whn he was small about what he "has". Oldest child is nearly 6, anxiety through the roof, bery literal etc and I looked at the Aspergers check list test. He scored so highly he was two away from the top but the school thinks it's because she's an anxious Mum!
If you could see how hard she's fought for her kids, now finally someone is believing her. Youngest son was referred to CAHMS and within three sessions she asked if he's been tested for autism. The professionals have taken my friend's legs from under her with their stupid suggestions. Youngest son has choking episodes, literally silent choking and SALT lady refused to believe her.
Mum has been blamed for his eating problems, suggesting that because Mum had ME and also annorexia as a teen that somehow this has impacted on his eating! He has been the same since he was six months old. Mum is fighting so hard for them and the oldest child has been given a DX of dyspraxia. He has terrible trouble getting dressed, he physically finds it hard to get a jumper on/off because he doesn't have the co-ordination or the strength. He also gets terrible fatigue, can't climb the stairs if he has had a bad day at school and gets physically sick through tiredness.
He can't ride a bike etc but is incredibly bright, ver literal and knows he is different. It's heartbreaking but because Mum had battled so long to get a dx of anything at all for him, she feels grateful she has this one and has left the Aspergers side to carry on trying to get help for her youngest.