ffs, how to get a mortgage when one is unemployed carer lazybum??

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So am mid divorce, have plenty income to cover paltry remnants of mortgage but sods won't give me it because my income is not salaried but is dla, ca and maintenance. This really irks. Anyone else come across this and how did you resolve it, mortgage guarantor, joint mortgage, random rich uncle or what?

will carers ever get the respect deserved or will we always be invisible?

oh and i put this here and not in lone parents or moneys because you all know why I don't just go get me a job x

do all single parent ft carers of disabled dc rent or did you win lotto and just buy outright?

am off to punch pillows or something...

Do any mortgage providers take these payments into account, I think I read something about Santander including some?

have heard back today that hbos may consider possibly perhaps. I think guarantor may be the only way to be sure, proper stressed

A Sharia mortgage? Or a small independent building society?