Mum, have i got aspergers syndrome?

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Eeeek! But actually, he seemed fine. After all my careful thinking and worrying about telling him, he's twigged (strategic placing of novel in bedroom) - sort of phew.
Had a chat about it.

I think DS2 is better at holding it in at school, but still bounces with excitement. His peers find him quite endearing, I think, especially those who see him a lot. Kids on the bus are less tolerant, though. And he can still have a tantrum with his TA. He's 13...

ds1's also better at keeping the asd under control at school. not unusual ime - but just how do they do it

Because they are more relaxed at home? Allowed to let it all out?