Ds 6 had his ADOS assessment last week. Haven't had formal feedback as yet but the informal answer is that he scores above the threshold but they don't think he has ASD due to all their other observations of him. They think instead that due to his very difficult early start his social development is around two years behind, but they hope to see that gap close as he moves up junior school.
I'm okay with this, but wondered if anyone else had had a similar experience? My main anxiety is to document that he has ASD type difficulties NOW and needs appropriate support. I don't want anyone suggesting that he hasn't got ASD and therefore we can have normal age appropriate expectations of his behaviour and social skills. To be fair CAMhS aren't sayig that and nor are school, but I don't want to be totally dependent on the goodwill of those who informally 'get it' in case they change.
Many thanks!