Well, I have my meeting with school SENCO (only there for this term) and the Statement officer tomorrow to discuss DS's proposed, I'm sitting here going through everything, the paperwork, my points, playing and replaying possible conversations and what my responses should be in my head and getting myself in a little bit of a state 
I've said it before but I am really bad in these meetings, at least I have someone from PP there and they seem very supportive so finger's crossed they will help me keep the conversation on target. Thankyou to the lovely people on here who have given me advice in the last week or so regarding this, it's helped me a great deal.
Just after a little bit of support really as my family seems to be a bit blasé about it and I feel as if my son's future rests on getting this right, kinda lonely right now