Ok so I seem to have stepped into a parallel universe wherein we go to meet the local authority people all ready for a fight.
And they then agree to put ABA into DS' statement and we are negotiating funding from a pretty generous starting offer.
Anyone wishing to know which authority we are in, feel free to send me a PM.
One of the reasons stated was looking to the future where parents get more control over their child's funding. The people we are dealing with couldn't be nicer, more professional and, dare I say, caring.
Am I being duped or are we just the luckiest people in the country?