DH was coming home from work last night and was chatting to a man who works in the same building
They had got off the train and Damien said something about the man that had been sitting behind them. The man had been very loud and it was obvious to Damien by the way he spoke that the man had SN
His colleague said "Oh that's all we need, some one loud and stupid behind us"

you should have heard me this morning when hew told me!!
DH turned to him and said "my 4 year old Daughter has special needs"
Colleague replied "oh as soon as I said it I thought I shouldn't have"
Too flippen right he shouldn't have
DH just said that its hard enough and worrying bringing a child with SN up without comments like that.
...aggghhh!! I said that it is the colleague that is stupid
Can't believe people can have such views