sorry it's all over the place, however [[http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/special_needs/1579394-Post-16-transition here's the original]] we are having trouble linking FB to MN without knowing RL names, any help appreciated, however there are a few threads in hopes MN will pick up on the need for this: [[http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/off_the_beaten_track/1580144-SN-16-19Transition-support-thread here]] and [[http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/1580103-to-think-that-nothing-changes-overnight-when-you-are-18-so-why-do-SS here]] thanks.